Sunday 23 March 2014

DATE A GIRL WHO TALKS



Date a girl who talks. Who talks a lot. Who talks sense. Because in those long conversations spanning hours and often across continents, there’ll hardly be a dull or quiet moment. Date a girl who talks. Because it’ll be pretty impossible for her to hide anything from you-either good or bad. She’ll never cheat on you. She’ll never keep piling up emotions in her only to explode one fine day and charge you with crimes you would have long lost track of.

Date a girl who talks. Because girls who talk do not keep you guessing. You won’t have to go through the whole “Does she or does she not” phase. If she does, you’ll know within a day. If she doesn’t, you’ll know within a minute.

A girl who talks will shower you with affection. She’ll think of the most un-cheesy of names which will be downright embarrassing at first but will eventually become nectar for your ears. She’ll share her every living moment with you and make you the centre of her world. Date a girl who talks. Because good talkers are good listeners. She’ll wait for you to finish grouching about the problems you face and then offer solutions that can untangle the most complex of knots.

Date a sensible girl who talks. Because sense comes from awareness. Because only a few things are as attractive as a girl who can converse about politics, sports and science with as much ease as fashion, boys and lovey-dovey stories. Because you won’t have to worry about her “fitting in”with your group of friends. She’ll chatter her way into their hearts and soon become everyone’s most dependable Agony Aunt.

Date a girl who talks. Girls who talk are girls who read. And when you date a girl who reads, you’re dating the most sensible of the lot. Because girls who read are multifaceted. They can switch from the mushy romantic to the stoic mature one to the passionate sensualist with the bat of an eyelid. She’s read so many Austens that she’s lived through dozens of relationships before actually being in one. Because a talkative girl knows that what makes a relationship last is talking and companionship. Not exotic getaways and expensive gifts.

Because girls who talk are as pure hearted as can be. They’ll not compare you with their best friends’ boy friends. She knows that comparing love is derogatory. Because talkative people are talented at pulling legs and sporting enough to have theirs pulled. Because she knows that sweet nothings are just that. Nothings. And true enjoyment is derived from a witty chat or two. She’ll never burden you with doubts and promises regarding the future. She has a lot to talk about the present and past anyway.

Date a girl who talks. She’ll share her deepest fears and wildest fantasies. And in her tender moments when she’ll need reassurance, she’ll be the gullible person you never thought existed beneath that cover of confident,cheerful banter.

Date a girl who talks. Because in those rare moments bereft of her chatter, you’ll realise that nothing means more to you than that. And that keeping the cheer in her chatter is what’s most important to you.

Be her rock. Her companion. Her loving critic. Her loudest cheer. Her most gentle disciplinarian. And in her you’ll have found the companion you were always looking for. The perfect concoction of sense,fun and tenderness.

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